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    8/17/2007

    献给七夕的大家

    中国的七夕又要到了,最近不知道为什么,有点惆怅。
    在EURO TOP 20里听到了4 in the morning这首歌,不知怎么的,很有感触,很有共鸣。 
    希望。。。大家都在七夕那天快乐吧。。。
     
    Waking up to find another day
    The moon got lost again last night
    But now the sun has finally had its say
    I guess I feel alright
    But it hurts when I think, when I let it sink in
    It's all over me
    I know you're here in the dark
    Watching you sleep, it hurts alot
    All I know is, you've got to give me everything
    Nothing else cause, you know I give you all of me
    I give you everything that I am
    I'm handing over everything that I got
    Cause I wanna have a really true love
    Don't ever want to have to go and give you up
    Stay up till 4 in the morning, and the tears are pouring
    And I wanna make it worth the fight
    What have we been doing for all this time?
    Baby if we're gonna do it, come on and do it right
    All I wanted was to know I'm safe
    Don't want to loose the love I've found
    Remember when you said that would change?
    Don't let me down
    It's not fair, how you are
    I can't be complete
    Can you give me more?
    All I know is, you've got to give me everything
    Nothing else cause, you know I give you all of me
    I give you everything that I am
    I'm handing over everything that I got
    Cause I wanna have a really true love
    Don't ever want to have to go and give you up
    Stay up till 4 in the morning, and the tears are pouring
    And I wanna make it worth the fight
    What have we been doing for all this time?
    Baby if we're gonna do it, come on and do it right
    Oh please, you know what I need
    Save all your loving for me
    We can't escape our love
    Give me everything that you have
    All I know is, you've got to give me everything
    Nothing else cause, you know I give you all of me
    I give you everything that I am
    I'm handing over everything that I got
    Cause I wanna have a really true love
    Don't ever want to have to go and give you up
    Stay up till 4 in the morning, and the tears are pouring
    And I wanna make it worth the fight
    What have we been doing for all this time?
    Baby if we're gonna do it, come on and do it right
    8/15/2007

    幼稚?成熟?

    最近一个好友告诉我,他的女朋友嫌弃他不够成熟,准备分手。
    他对我诉苦了一番。
    我觉得分手的话,损失不会是我朋友的,而是我朋友的女朋友的。

    一个人,一个男人,成熟是必然的发展趋势。但你要是指望一个20多岁的人成熟,未免有些拔苗助长。
    多少年纪的人就该做多少年纪该做的事情。一个20多岁的人,没有什么阅历就要和30,40的人比成熟实在是太可怕了。
    当然也有20多岁的人的确表现的比较成熟的。但男人的成熟是和他的阅历联系在一起的。当你发现一个男人很成熟的时候,你可知道他背后的故事?当你在欣赏他的成熟的时候,你是否会感觉他的深不可测?当他默默不语,低头沉思的时候,你还会觉得成熟是好事情吗?
    成熟的人一般来说经历的东西也多。经历的东西多了也就不会拿一个女生当宝了。当一个20多岁的男生,成熟的时候,在他的眼里,你的分量能和一个幼稚的,纯纯的向往着真爱的男生比吗?你也不想想,他的成熟是有多少是建立在一次次的失恋中,一次次的失落中,一次次的失望中的?那个时候,你在他眼里也只不过是可有可无的而已。
    我知道现在很多20出头,18,9岁的女孩子都想找一个成熟的男生做依靠。难道你们就没有发觉身边的那些和你们在一起的幼稚,可爱的男生的优点?为什么不和他们一起成长,一起成熟呢?到将来,你们可以有很多往事可以回忆,回忆一起成长的过程,那不是一种浪漫吗?
    或许现在的人已经过于忙碌,而无暇享受浪漫了吧。。。